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Patch Blog: Bridal Gift Registry 101
Tips to alleviate the stress of bridal gift registry.
The season of weddings is almost upon us, and if you’re a bride planning a summer wedding and you haven’t registered yet, now is the time to get moving on it.
Where, what and how, you ask. Do I need to include my groom? It’s a lovely gesture to register as a couple. Afterall you may be picking out your formal china that will serve possibly for generations to come. Wouldn’t it be nice if he felt like he was a part of your traditions?
Heading to Macy’s or any other major department store might seem a bit overwhelming when you step into the housewares section. Sheets, towels, formal china, informal dinnerware, pots and pans, stemware and flatware--oh my! To make sure that you are not overwhelmed, here are a few tips for your registering experience:
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- Make an appointment. This makes it easier to get the help you’ll need when navigating through your store of choice.
- Make a list. Many stores now offer you a scanning tool, but just going up and down each aisle like kids in a candy store many lead to scan happy hands. You’ll end up with a mish-mash of items that don’t necessarily coordinate. Sit down and together decide the color scheme of your home. Whether it will be traditional or modern, and what you love, and dislike. This will streamline your registering experience and keep you focused.
- Be practical. Never register for something just to see if someone will actually spend the amount to buy it for you. You just may end up with something that you aren’t that thrilled with, and that doesn’t go with anything else you have. Stick to your list.
- Don’t go hungry! Hunger leads to anxiety which can lead to grumpy verbal exchanges. Remember this is a happy time in your life. Set aside a day to do this. Start with a beautiful breakfast or lunch out together, and make a day of it.
- Follow registry etiquette. And whatever you do, never mention your gift registry on your Wedding invitation. That’s a no-no according to Emily Post. With all the technology at our fingertips these days, guests will easily find your registry, or will opt for either a cash gift or gift card instead.
And whatever you do, remember that a timely “thank-you” note is a MUST. Preferably within 30 days of receiving a gift, but definitely within the 90 day period. And always keep in mind, that if you have delayed a thank you, a late thank-you is better than no thank you at all!
